In the year 1981, the British band Queen gave the world a liberating anthem for people trapped in an alien relationship, with others or with themselves. The classic song Under Pressure strikes a chord today, deep within men in today’s society especially in the 40-plus age group. This demographic confronts tremendous pressure to conform to the societal norms of ‘masculine beauty’ or ‘a real man’. Paraphrasing the last verse of the song – “Love or others dare you to change your way, Caring more about others than ourselves”. The Curve Ten years back, the term ‘mid-life crisis’ would have conjured up…